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Thursday, December 21, 2006 |
Cyber-Breaking Up Is Hard To Do
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HEY HEARTUN~ Can you still be friends with someone after you've cybered. Even if you don't want to cyber with them any more? ~FRIENDS FOREVER
DEAR FRIENDS~ The short answer is 'no.' But it's more complicated than that.
Cyber sex is the safest thing out there, and lets face it... it is convenient. Assisted masturbation can be very exciting, but if that's all you've got with your partner that partnership may fade with time. It sounds like that is what happened here -- from what little you gave us to go with -- and I'm guessing you just don't want to be a jerk and drop your boreing lover like an adult. So you'll pull the 'lets be friends' routine and meet with the predictable results. Your lover will know they are being spurned, get pissed off or clingy, and give you a reason to drop them where you can blame THEM for the breakup.
After all, you still wanted to be friends and they got all weird on you. Right?
Be an adult. Just tell them you are no longer getting what you want out of the relationship and need to move on. After a cooling off period, if you run into them again, try being friends with them. And as for your next conquest, try being friends first. See if you have something in common besides mutual masturbation and one handed typing.
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