HEY HEARTUN: I am a good Sub, and I love my Master but He has gotten involved in some game called Dark Life. It's like a game inside of Second Life. You put on these packs and use swords and magic to kill these stupid monsters. It is the most boreing thing I've ever seen, but my Master loves it. He wants to go up levels really fast so He has me play too, as a mage. My only job is to stand behind Him and heal Him. I get so bored that sometimes I do other stuff in another window so His guy dies and He gets mad at me. ~ BORED SUB
DEAR BORED ~ I know that he is the boss and you like doing his bidding, but he's not paying attention to you. He's just using you, and not in a good way -- like you want. You need to talk to him outside of the role you have established. Put on a completely different avatar. Let him know that you are talking to him as you, not as the role you have shown him. Then discuss with him what you need out of your relationship and what you find lacking right now. He will probably want to play the game some times too but he can't do it all the time and he can't be mean to you if you get bored with something that you do not enjoy. Then switch back to your regular avatar and kiss and make up.
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