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| Monday, November 12, 2007 |
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Darth: "Luke, I am your father" Luke: "Wow, that's almost as freaky as this one guy I heard about!"
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 Hey Heartun~ I am a male in RL who came to SL just to have fun. Minutes into
playing, i decided to throw away my male av and make a female one. i've
always been more in tune with my feelings, not gay, or even metrosexual,
just more in tune. in short, i wanted ppl to see me for who i was inside.
i SWRP (star wars role play) and while playing, i met THE most
wonderful person, another female av, and we got to know each other, and fell
in love.
i was so in love, i knew i had to tell her, even with the fear
that she might not want me. i finally worked up the courage, and when i
told her, she revealed to me that she also is a male in RL. i've got
to tell you, this hit me like a brick wall. but, it took me only moments
to realize that i loved her before, i could love him now. as i said
before, i've never seen myself as gay, i've never so much as thought of
myself as bi-curious. it is only recently that i have come to look at
myself as bi, through the help of a friend who has taught me to
accept myself for what i am, although i could never, ever see myself
with a guy other than this one. we still have female av's, and continue
living as lesbians, we're even engaged in SL. i'm just not sure what i
should do. i mean, when we first told each other, we thought we'd just
keep it in SL, but i have come to realize, that i love her/him so much.
i guess that i really am bi. umm... help? ~Confuzzled
Dear Confuzzled~ Sounds like you've got a good handle on the situation. I don't see what the problem is. Have fun.Labels: finding a lover, gender bending, lesbians |
posted by Heartun Breaker @ 3:45 PM
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Three on a whip?
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HEY HEARTUN: I'm the female partner in a 'triangular' relationship involving The Mistress, her male sub and me. I really think that The Mistress and I have something spiritual, and that the sub is just a sex toy for her but he's been with The Mistress longer than I have. And lately when I'm fucking The Mistress, I get the impression that she's thinking of her sub some times. What do I do? ~ UNEQUAL PARTNER
DEAR UNEQUAL: A 'triangular' relationship is a complex one, and can only work if the sub and the partner (that's you!) of the mistress also have a mutual understanding of each other's needs and feelings. If either of them does not feel comfortable with the situation it wont work. A sub can be a sex toy who is just happy to make his or her mistress happy in any possible way and in return get affection. To some people its just fun roleplay, to others an erotic experience. Either way, even if you and Sub Dude are never great pals, you've got to talk with him frequently -- after all, you both share the love of your mistress.
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| posted by Heartun Breaker @ 7:38 AM
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Take note! Second Life is NOT first life
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HEY HEARTUN: I find that relationships on Second Life can be tricky when people want to tell you about their real life lives -- and ask about yours. How do I keep SL in SL and RL in RL? ~ BURNED IN SL
DEAR BURNED: That's what the "My Notes" section of other people's Profiles is for. You keep track of all the lies you tell them about yourself in that section. I am assured by Linden Labs that they will not be able to access this information, so you will always be able to keep track of your lies. And use Google Images to find a picture of someone hotter than your fat, old, married self that you can pretend to be in your First Life section -- then all you have to do is create a series of gestures conveying how interested you are in what they say about their alleged "Real" lives and you are set. If something goes wrong, just Mute that person and find another.Labels: SLetiquette |
| posted by Heartun Breaker @ 6:59 AM
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