HEY NIYATI ~ This question isn't really for me; rather its for all those young men who think its cool to cross dress and look for lesbians. I'm a lesbian (online only) and am often recreating at the Isle of Lesbos. The other night this female avatar called (real name substituted with 'Betty') showed up and yelled "Hey, anone want 2 fuck?"
Needless to say the 40 girls present responded with LOL's and LMAO's but Betty was serious. With her noobie sandals and Orientation Island stock avatar (the brunette one) it was pretty clear that Betty was an alt. And her behavior made it clear she was really a young man, perhaps a boy. I never understood this kind of behavior, but Betty isn't alone. There are a lot of people out there like this. Do you have any advice for them? ~ SAPPHIC SOPHISTICATE
DEAR SAPPHIC SOPHISTICATE ~ Is this like when you ask a question for your "friend"? I have no control over who someone wants to be in SL - you yourself are a lesbian only in game, right? I am not going to tell a guy that they shouldn't have a female avie - it is totally their choice to be who they want to be.
Yeah, it sucks when a newbie guy with a female alt appears on the Isle of Lesbos. It's annoying -- they are lame -- but mute is a wonderful thing. And, honestly, they aren't hurting anything.
If a man really wants to have hot lesbian cyber sex they need to keep in mind that women are not stupid creatures and if they think they've "tricked" a woman into cybering with them, they are totally wrong - it's probably another man. If that's your deal then great. If not, reconsider what you are doing, put a little time into your alt and live as a SL transexual. SLers will be totally okay with that. Oh, be sure to tell your "friend" my answer. ~ NIYATI KLATA
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